My son is 13 and recently came out as “gay” which isn’t an issue. I’ve always suspected he was, I have gay friends and family and couldn’t care less. However I’m so confused by him and don’t have any previous experience with his behaviour to know how to deal with it. A year ago he started wearing makeup which again, not a problem. It started with him wanting to do his eyebrows and wear foundation which progressed into eyeshadow and lipsticks. Lately there’s been two occasions where he bought girls clothes “for a friend’s birthday” and then I’ve discovered he still had the clothes and he started wearing them himself (off the shoulder type tops and one was cropped). He’s started wearing fake nails and wants to get his nails done at a salon and at this point I’m at a loss. I could accept that he’s transgender but I don’t want to suggest anything to him/not sure how to approach the subject. There are a lot of things I’m worried about such as his safety as I know not everyone is as accepting when they see a teenage boy dressed like a girl. If he thinks he’s transgender I just want to know so we can move forward, this period of not knowing and being confused is horrible
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