Really stressed all the time about all the housework I have to do. I work full time, have two DDs (5 and 2 ) and I am responsible for literally everything. I am not a single parent but for work reasons my partner does nothing. It's supposed to be temporary until summer but I just cannot seem to manage even the bare minimum at the moment.
DDs are in childcare full time so I feel under pressure to spend time with them at weekends (and I want to) but I feel like with all the cooking, washing etc i gave no time to spend with them at all. DD1 is constantly asking me to play with her but all I say is 'in a minute' or 'a bit later'. And they are good at playing alone, it's not like they are dependent on me or anything.
I don't do anything that isn't absolutely necessary and by that I mean, I don't clean except immediate things like clean the kitchen after dinner. Almost never do the hoovering or dusting for example. I try to cook quick meals but I'm not very good at cooking and I don't want to feed the girls processed stuff all of the time. But just basic washing, cooking, tidying up after meals and tidying up toys seems to take all day.
Sorry for this long pointless vent. What I want to know is - how do other people manage? Can you do sll the household stuff and play with your children? What is your routine (I have none and am frequently searching the house for clean underwear and running out of milk).
I do meal plan and online shopping. I can't afford a cleaner (and it wouldn't save me time anyway because I don't clean).
Just stressed and depressed about the state of my house and the lack of time for my kids. Help!
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Cannot cope with all the housework! How do you manage with full time work and kids?
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PolyesterBride · 14/04/2013 20:29
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