Hi there
After a seriously long break from MN, I am back with my tail between my legs looking for some advice/support since my twins have started school.
I have worked full time since they were 5 months old, so they are nursery raised boys. I had my third child in Feb and he is now at the same nursery.
The twins started proper school yesterday and as a consequence I start work later so I can drop them off - this means I have to finish later also, so DH picks the twins up from after school club about half 5 and I pick 6mo up from nursery about 5.45 ish. I got in about 6.15 last night which is about bathtime for 6mo, so he went straight upstairs - and then twins get in his bath water and then straight to bed.
I found 'homework' in their school bags after they were all soundly asleep and thought when the fook am I going to get time to fit all this in. Not only do I only see them for about 45 mins in the evening, I will not be able to do the required sit down a read with them time individually. And wot about when they get older and need outfits making, or they have PROPER homework - am I damaging their education by working these 8 hours a day?
I have considered dropping some hours and having a pay cut, but not sure if the reduction in pay negates any benefit of not having to pay for after school club.
Does anyone sucessfully work full time, have their kids in school and feel they have a good work/home balance?
For 4 years me working has been fine, so didn't think anything of them starting school - but 2 days in I feel guilty as hell, skint and really really tired.....
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Meeely3 · 04/09/2009 14:01
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