DS1 is borderline gifted in Music. He would be properly gifted if he really put his heart into it, but he doesn't.
He likes to perform and loves the praise he gets at the end of a concert. He has had distinctions for his grade exams.
However, he does very lazy practice. He doesn't actually work on anything and just rattles through the pieces, trying to play them faster and faster. Often I interrupt to remind him of the focus. Then he complains and whines, but he will fix the problem.
Anyway we are approaching secondary school time and if he doesn't get a Music scholarship he will have to go to the scary local rough school. It has less than 20% success rate for qualifications.
For this reason alone I want to push him. But tonight when I asked him to do his sight reading, he did this fake crying thing and refused. Saying he didn't know even whay the notes were. It was well within his level. He just couldnt be bothered.
I told him to just put the stuff away. I couldn't drag him through it. Then he was supposed to look at some theory. He couldn't (or wouldnt) answer a single question. He wouldn't even try.
Now, I would love to be the kind of mum who can just let her kid find their own way, but he will not have a happy time at the local school. I have looked at other options. Music scholarship is his only route.
How can I help him?
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Frustratedhairpullmoment · 08/10/2018 20:53
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