Hello all,
I'm starting to consider secondary for my 9yo DD. She's on the school's G&T register (they sent us a letter following some 'assessment' held for several kids in the borough). She's always been 'advanced' since nursery, top table in everything throughout primary, attends the 'exclusive' maths club for the G&T kids in the borough on Saturdays, aced the yr6 SAT test papers last summer.
She loves political issues and works through discussions - we listen to LBC because of her. I was working on a report last week and was stuck. This child recommended a way to untangle it and I completed the report on the back of it ! We are all very academic but she's on a different level - they would all rather read than do anything else. They do their homework before anything else; I hardly see it. So, in general, I encourage her; I don't want to push more.
Anyway, my heart is set on a state secondary school nearby. It's an outstanding school, quite academic, many of her school mates will be going there. However, everywhere we go where her abilities stand out (maths club, quiz eves etc), everyone asks if she's going to grammar school. I've considered it and I'm not interested really. The closest one is miles away although there is an organised school bus. However, I feel really guilty that I might be holding her back from joining co-high-ability kids; like I could be giving her something more.
Some others are telling me to apply for a bursary to go to a private school but the ones I found are not close and it just seems such a hassle as they'll expect her to keep 'performing'. She'll do anyway, but I don't want to put any kind of pressure on her.
So, what have you done and what do you think? If you had similar circumstances, did you send your dc to grammar school? Did they keep doing well at a good state school? Did you go private?
Your experiences would be very welcome
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insideoutsider · 21/04/2018 21:30
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