Don't really know where to start but I think dh is falling into a depression but in typical male fashion not admitting to it. I've implored him to go see the GP to get some advice or even just some drugs (like the ones I'm on - and yes I know they're not a solution but they help in the interim).
But no... he won't even consider going to the GP.
Though his mood swings are worse than mine during pmt and at least mine are only once a month.
dd is at a stage where she;s scared of him as he wanders round the flat with a dark scowl and just barks at the kids.
Give him his due, he gets up at night for ds who's a terrible sleeper at the moment so he's tired. But so am I. He works all week, but so do I etc.
I just feel so hopeless. I had my first councelling session yesterday and when the counceller asked me how I feel about my husband and whether the feeling of love is still there, I couldn't answer and burst out into tears instead.
I'm off to Germany for 2 nights tonight and am worried how he's going to cope. During the day at least I've got my fantastic nanny as a loving influence...
I feel like writing him a long letter about how I feel, but guess sending it to him today when I'm about to be away for a couple of days won't be the best idea...
I don't really know what I'm trying to say here, just rambling on I guess, but thank you if you read this far.
I'll be at work today and not able to check this board all too often, but I would be greatful for any good thoughts, encouragements or just 'I know how you feel'.
Thank you
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The way he makes me feel...
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MrsBigD · 02/08/2005 07:41
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