Apologies in advance if this turns into a bit of a long post.
I've been battling PND since ds was born (only knowingly since May last year). I saw a counsellor and was taking citalopram, but by february I felt really good so weaned myself off them. Everything has been great, I'm back to my usual self.
BUT, now dp is getting allsorts of stress from work; not just from the job he does, but the way management seem to handle everything. He's had a written warning for sickness absence because he was off for 2 weeks with suspected swine flu which prompted a bad chest infection. He's been told this can't be treated as a one off, so they had no choice but to issue the warning.
He applied for special leave in February as ds(2) was in hospital (an hour away from home) for an operation. DS also ended up on a drip for nearly 2 days because he picked up the rotavirus. Work knows this. He was only given 3 of the 5 days he applied for - management argues that I could have been there for ds for the other 2 days. We were both staying at the hospital, taking turns sleeping in the ward with ds while the other slept in the accommodation that we were given. I want dp to appeal against the decision - I've said I'll do the writing up, i feel that strongly about it, he just needs to submit it, but he says its too stressful and doesn't think he wants to do it.
I know it sounds very selfish of me to be feeling down because dp is stressed, but he's admitted himself that it affects how he is at home, and I really don't want all the stress to push me back into depression. I wonder if I should go back on the citalopram or see the counsellor again.
Anyone want to tell me I'm being melodramatic and to get a grip??
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