Urrgghhh ... I feel so useless and helpless and miserable since DD2 was born. It is because I am finding it hard to cope with a newborn who generally is fitful from 4am and does not stay asleep and then a 22 month old who is very demanding. I feel as if I have low milk supply and cannot get DD2 to settle to sleep without constant crying. I know lots of people say this is normal, but i honestly cannot handle it now. I am also travelling long haul with the 2 of them in weeks and am petrified abt the prospect but I have to for a sisters wedding. I feel as if everyone else's babies settle and sleep so much better than mine that I think that I must be doing soemthing wrong ... DD1 was also a nightmare, and I seriously can say that it stopped roughly at 4 months when I stopped BF ... I am so tempted to stop but feel pressure to continue. Am I being too impatient ? I really do dread each day and night and no longer smile or have the energy to be playful with DD1 who loses out the most .... I really do not know what to acheive by writing here but feel the need to as DH has a very stressful job and I do not want to burden him anymore, plus he thinks I am being neurotic !
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