Hi. Thread title says it all really. I have thought for a long time now that deep down, she isn't the happiest child in the world, even though she is happy and jolly alot of the time, gets on well at school, has no major upsets in her life etc. But recently she told dh that she feels sad all the time, even when she is happy she is sad underneath, and yesterday (after I had a row with her) she told me the same. She said she couldn't describe specifically how she felt, or why. She said that sometimes it was me or dh, sometimes it was school, sometimes it was general stuff. She has a little sister whom she adores and I don't think there is a problem there. I have a very close relationship with her but we do fall out quite a lot, she knows how to wind me up and I react to it. Occasionally I think that she doesn't like me, but I asked her that yesterday (in a very nice way) and she said it isn't that. She said she DOES like me, its just everything in her life. She said she doesn't like her life and she feels sad. This has broken my heart, partly because I think I have been aware that it was brewing inside her and I haven't tried to talk to her about it sooner. So today I have phoned NHS Direct for advice before going to the docs with her, as I don't want to freak her out, they were really nice and said I should take her to the docs, and they would also pass it on to the school nurse - my hv has phoned this afternoon and is coming for a chat with me tomorrow. I feel a bit surreal, like this isn't happening. DD said she sometimes throws things and breaks them in her room on purpose and she pinches herself hard to hurt herself. I don't think she is at a stage where she would really hurt herself, but I am just very worried about what is going on inside her head. I wondered if anyone out there has had a similar experience? If so, please tell me about it, I need to hear something, anything, that will help me understand. Thankyou!
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Please help - I think my 9 yr old is suffering from depression
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Dahlia · 25/07/2005 14:37
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