I have 2 children under 2 and for various reasons I don't have a lot of loving support - like lots of other parents. I don't have any contact with my family and havent for nearly 10 yrs (long story). My husband and I have moved around a fair bit and will be moving again with his work this summer. We have been here for about 18 months and I have lots of acquaintances but no proper friends - people you feel you can talk to. I have quite a few what I would call "facebook" friends - people from over the yrs who I keep in email contact with and very occasionally see some of them.
I have found the last 2 yrs of parenting hard and even more so now having 2 (youngest is 8 mo). Apart from 2 close friends who I can talk to (neither of whom have children) I feel that there are few people who care for me. I am trying to do my best to care for my 2 children as best I can and part of doing that well I think is ideally having people who help support you as the main carer of your children. MIL and 2 SIL's never ask me how I am - they have all been there - MIL even said she thought she would have a nervous breakdown when her 3 were small but that was said in passing and it's just "get on with it, no one is interested in how you are feeling". MIL and FIL are now only interested in seeing the children and their son and I feel forgotten. Husband does his best and acknowledges it is hard being at home.
I am sure I whinge too much but it is a way of trying to say - how about me? I have been suffering from mild depression and I am working on that. I guess I would like to hear how mothers who feel isolated manage?
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2 small children and needing support
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nellanella · 14/01/2010 14:02
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