Background: Have two boys (3yrs and 2yrs). Although planned, I was in shock after having my eldest. He was the first baby I ever held, also no friends who have had kids. Got pregnant again when ds1 was 6 months old. Tried to move house as lived in 3rd floor flat with no lift and stairs up to the front door. It took my dh and I 2 years to sell and we finally moved into our new house in Feb this year. After birth of ds2 was very depressed. Took it all out on dh, cried, rang Health Visitor, ranted at my Mum. Convinced myself it was just the terrible circumstances. Everyone said I would feel better after moving house.
Anyway still feeling low after move. I just want to be on my own. My moods are very up and down. Everyone says what a good job I am doing at bringing the boys up but I wonder what they are talking about. Also, relationship with dh has suffered and so I feel very isolated. He has to work long hours and despite working part-time and going to lots of mother & toddler groups there is no one I can talk to. I am finding motherhood very tough and wonder if anyone else can help me get some perspective on things.
(Have to go and prepare the boys' supper now)
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manicmama · 16/05/2005 17:04
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