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Husband has deserted me and 10 month baby

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Lafza · 28/03/2020 11:14

I’m really struggling with anxiety right now. I have been staying at my parents for a few days extra as my dad is Doctor and I am isolating before returning home where I have in laws living. Late last Monday my husband asked to pick me up but I asked if he can come in the morning because the baby was sleeping and I had to pack etc. He blew up about this and said don’t come at all all. He’s taken the car seat, my car, the pram. Everything I need for my baby is home - calpol, clothes etc. Since Monday he has refused to answer my calls or messages. He’s literally just left us. I don’t know what I can do now. I literally have a limited amount of clothes etc for me and baby here and it’s just the stress of not being home together with my dad being on the frontline that’s is killing me :( I have house keys but I don’t know if I can go back, I don’t know what he will do or how he will react. And I don’t have a car seat for my baby.

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CallmeAngelina · 28/03/2020 11:19

If he can do that to you, are you sure that going back is the best idea?

Do you or your parents know anyone who could lend you the basics for your baby? Or, whilst Amazon is still doing online deliveries, could you buy some cheap replacements to be going on with until your dick of an h comes to his senses and returns those baby items to you.

Stay put for now.

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