Sorry, Berrie, I didn?t want to turn the other thread into a threadnap. So, to continue - It's actually the farm, mainly because of the levels of responsibility and work it puts on me when DH is not around and the amount of time DH devotes to it when he is here. Added to this is all the additional pressures of farming - like paperwork, DEFRA, and, errrr, mud, not to mention the sheer responsibility of livestock! I also hate the feeling of being trapped because you can't simply drive off to visit mates for the weekend as you have to organise farm cover which isn't so easy. There's a couple of other things, farm-related, which I can't go into, but it's all part and parcel of feeling trapped. Having just come through 3 years of financial hell and finally getting ourselves back on our feet, ironic is hardly the word for this. It sounds awful, but this would be so much easier if I didn?t still care for DH, I just hate farming and to him it?s part of his whole being, whereas I'd be happy never to see another animal in my life. hmmm.
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