Hi there, this is the first time I have created a thread so I’m sorry if I ramble on. I have been struggling with depression and don’t have anyone to talk too, I feel so alone and don’t know what to do next. I’ve made such a mess of things recently that all I seem capable of doing is crying most of the time. I feel so low and want to bury myself under my duvet and never come out.
I have an 18 month old DD who is the love of my life but is exhausting and I struggle to play or do anything meaningful with her at the moment (she’s fed and cared for in practical terms). My partner doesnt understand why I’m depressed, he’s trying hard to understand but admits he doesn’t get it. Our relationship is very strained at the moment and I know he’s frustrated with me but I can’t just snap out of it.
To explain a little of what’s been happening - I am the ‘breadwinner’ but I haven’t worked since finishing maternity leave in March. I did start a new job a couple of months ago, an ideal ‘4 days a week’ job, exactly what I wanted, part time, local, the right money, right level etc but quit it after 2 weeks! I just couldn’t do it, I felt so overwhelmed with anxiety and depression, I just quit and ran away! As a result we are in even more difficultly financially because of me, because I was so reckless and stupid to just quit. Now we are struggling to pay the bills. I feel l’ve let my DD down, it’s my job to put a roof over her head and now we are facing not being able to pay the mortgage from January when our savings will have run out. I went to the Dr’s a few weeks ago and she put me on Prozac. I feel like such a failure and don’t know how to get myself out of this black hole and functioning again. I know it’s my own fault that we’ve ended up in this situation because of my own stupid actions. I feel like I’ll never be able to function properly again, let alone hold down a job again.
I’m sorry if I’ve rambled on, I just don’t have anyone to talk to who understands. If anyone has any words of wisdom they would be very much appreciated.
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Depression - I feel so alone
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Nissandriver · 15/10/2017 23:18
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