I think I may have a problem with my eldest (17, nearly 18). He always hated going to playgroup when he was little, then hated school and now college. He seems to be doing the right college course but still doesn't like going. He does not go out with friends socially. The odd time his mates (x2) will come round and play xbox for a couple of hours but that's it. Im not too concerned with the not going out, not every one wants too! But what does concern me is he WONT talk about the future ie future college courses, part time work, voluntary work, work experience etc. I think he just wants to pretend that will never happen and he can stay in his bedroom watching films for the rest of his life.
Yes we have anxiety in the family and I think this is one of the problems, but my son denies this and also wont talk about it. He will not speak to or be nice to his younger brother or his Dad ?
He is a very quiet likable lad with a cracking sense of humor but just scared of life i think.
Any one else got this issue or any advice on where I can go for help?
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My son wont go out other than to college
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user1492692447 · 20/04/2017 14:36
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