I've been struggling from day to day for a very long time, at least 3 years maybe more like 5.
I have a huge backlog of work, I work from home for a client, they rely on me and other peoples jobs depend on me. I am so behind I cannot cope. My husband says that's because I use social media, its my fault, but I use that to actually help me cope talking to the few friends I have. Both my best friends died within the last 3 years, only in their 40s/50s. It has destroyed me, I was just holding on with their support but without it, I can't cope. They also supported my children - my DCs are struggling one with GCSEs she needs lots of practical and emotional help, and other DD has terrible anxiety, I can't find anyone to treat it - she also has a long term health issue and has finally got the consultant referral she needs. In the meantime, the school are now prosecuting us for her sickness (got that letter this week).
I am trying to organise a holiday during which the house will be refurbished, both proving to be a nightmare. The house is a terrible dirty mess, even getting to the shops to buy basics is overwhelming.
H and I are over, he is an abusive prick but I can't cope with all this and leaving him, kids have begged me not to break the family up.
And me? I'm organising a parcel to be returned to Amazon so that's ok then. How can I cope with this?
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My life is falling apart what do I tackle first?
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NotOneThingButAnother · 28/03/2017 14:34
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