My 14yr old DD has anorexia and my worst nightmare for her has come true. She's being admitted to an eating disorder clinic as she has a strong fear of unhealthy foods and if she eats over 1.5k calories she will get very upset. She's lost 2 stone in 6 months and there was no other choice. I feel awful as she knows we are going to the hospital (inpatient ward) it's a 2 hour drive but she thinks it's a check up and a talk. I was told not to tell her as it will be far to distressing. I have a large suitcase full of clothes, a note and picture of her brothers and sister and her teddy she's had from birth. I doubt I'll be able to visit more than once every two weeks and I feel like a failure. She's allowed to bring electronics with her even though the time spent on these is monitored. I've been given a structure of her day which isn't to bad but she's going to fall so behind on her eduction as her school day is 2.5 hours long instead of 8 hours. :(
I feel like she'll hate me forever for leaving her there and DS who's 17 and very close to DD is refuses to talk to me and called me a 'fat bitch' for leaving her in an inpatient unit..
Am I an awful mother and will she hate me forever?
I really need some advice, a pm from anyone who has had a child admitted into an ED or MH clinic or have been in one themselves. I feel awful for not telling her where she is going but I've been told it's for the best, is that right?😔😪
Any help and support is so helpful to me at this time.😔
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Mental health
14yr old addmition
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Lifeisshort123 · 20/11/2016 21:50
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