My darling boyfriend told me a month ago that he was suffering with depression. He shut himself away & I have seen him twice but hear very little from him. For background, we haven't been together very long but have known each other for 30 years (he was my primary school boyfriend). He lost his father when he was young & then also survived the same cancer which took his dad. He is going through a divorce & has a stressfuljob so there are lots of triggers. I know that he is signed off work & is scared to go back. I am desperate for advice about how to help him - I have taken food packages to him & I send him regular messages asking how he is. Yesterday's message is the first to which I haven't hAd a response (he hasn't even read it). He is, without doubt one of the loveliest people I have ever known & I am heartbroken that he is suffering but I genuinely don't know what to do to support him - leave him alone or continue dropping food parcels & friendly messages? To clarify - none of the messages have asked anything of him. Thanks in advance for any advice xx
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