DD is 17 and away at Uni, and she is lucky enough to have a wonderfully kind and sensible boyfriend who is 3 years older than her, and mature beyond his years as well.
She does not have a diagnosis of bipolar, but is on fluoxetine, olanzapine and Lamictal (lamotrigine). She shows many of the symptoms. She most recently has acted in a delusional way, accusing her BF of seeing other girls, going through his phone at 2am, getting hysterical, getting fixated on things. It's really hard for him - and for me. They really love each other but it's like she's on a self-destruct mission.
He called me in desperation yesterday, and we decided it would be good to try and reason with my DD a little when she is stable. If she could only accept that she does get paranoid and then be able to recognise when she's starting to feel that way, then that would be a really positive thing. Unfortunately she refuses to have any counselling or to do any mindfulness or any of that kind of thing. She just wants the medication to sort her out, rather than do any kind of reflection.
Does anyone have any idea of how to try to get through to her without setting her off on another episode? I've googled and googled to try and find information I could give her, but she has the concentration of a butterfly at the best of times and is dyslexic too, and I always end up deciding that it would be too much information to swamp her with.
Please can anyone help?
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How to get through to DD when she's between episodes?
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WheresMyTrowel · 18/01/2016 19:40
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