Long story involving Home Treatment Team, hospital admission, psychiatrist appointments, psychologist appointment etc. over the last few months. Diagnosis of depression and anxiety. Finally discharged from HTT 3 weeks ago to IAPT (therapy service) during a multi-disciplinary team meeting.
IAPT 'lost' me in the their system and only because I phoned yesterday, they allocated me a triage appointment this morning.
I arrived 10 minutes early and waited nearly half an hour (assessor said she'd got my appointment time wrong - all fine, it happens)
She rushed me through the process, at one point telling me we needed to be quick because she as seeing someone else in 7 minutes! Argued with me that there was no way I would get stage 3 (trauma therapy) until I had done 6 weeks of stage 2 (CBT - self help therapy first) despite the fact that two consultants and my HHT nurse all agreed that I needed more than stage 2.
I was very polite but pointed out that maybe the fact my IAPT appointment had been lost was why there was nowhere to say what these health professionals had recommended.
Anyway, the whole thing felt very rushed and she was not in the least empathetic. I disclosed that I felt I needed more than CBT due to historical abuse. She then suddenly decided I was stage 3 after all. All well and good and I was remaining calm and polite throughout but felt very stressed and a little upset and how rushed I felt. She then asked me how the abuse affected me (the whole abuse conversation lasted about a minute).
I felt put on the spot and didn't particularly want to confide in her but I had to in order to access the therapy. I told her it has had a very negative affect on my sex life (very true). She then looked at me in disbelief and said, " What? Even though you've had three children?"
WTF!! So I can't be affected by childhood sexual abuse or teenage rape because I have children?? I was so astounded I just muttered "yes"
It felt like she was disbelieving me and making me out to be a liar. I am so pleased I stayed calm and polite but I really wanted to let rip.
Got my stage 3 referral though...
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I can't believe what the IAPT assessment 'professional' has just said to me!
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Ikeatears · 10/12/2015 14:58
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