I've been trying to see my GP for six weeks. Firstly, he's the only GP who understands mental health (one used to work for Atos!), or at least my issues, and doesn't just usher me away ASAP with a script for AD's and a referral they know full well will be bounced back. He's obviously the most popular GP cos he's booked up much faster than the others! Unfortunately this means 2-3 weeks for an appt. unless it's an emergency. Adding in the fact that I can't guarantee I'll be ok to leave the house that day, and almost certainly won't be able to before about 2pm, and even making the appt. gets harder and involves a longer wait for one at a suitable time. Sometimes I can speak to him on the phone sooner, but he just wants to make an appt. to discuss in person...
So I waited for my appointment, bearing in mind I was only leaving my bed about 30% of the days by this point. When the day rolled around, it was awful. I really lose it in the waiting room, unless I'm feeling mentally ok. I just can't deal with all those people around. Plus the GP always leaves me until last. (I only made the effort to note this because I thought I was being paranoid about it so checked the next time.) I don't understand this; I've said I notice people arriving after me who get seen first, and he just sort of changes the subject or tells me I'm observant or something.
So I was trying not to run away, wanting to punch the people around me (I'm not violent but frustration being confined with people when I'm not up to it starts this feeling). I asked the receptionist when I'd be seen, and she said I was next. Only the GP came out and called someone else's name. This pushed me over the edge and I ran away while I was still able to get safely home.
I'm fucked. All the signs tell me I've outstayed my welcome and suicide is the logical option. But it's really hard to kill yoursef. I keep being ready but it's so sad. I dont know anymore. I've tried so hard but don't have any support bar a therapist I pay for (she is v. frustrated with services too).
The services won't help me, been chasing that avenue for five feckin years!! Easier not to be constantly reminded you're not worthy of their help. But at least I could talk to my GP before, at least someone knew what was going on. I don't have close friends I can speak to really, although they care I can't actually say anything without it leading to feeling attacked, or them 'telling me off'. They are both male too, and I miss female company. But regardless, even if I magically made new friends it doesn't mean someone to talk to about this stuff until years down the line when you know each other very well.
I'm not even sure what I'm tryng to say anymore, this may bit a bit of a cry for help. Sorry.
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How do you cope with no help/seeing GP?
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elementofsurprise · 15/07/2015 11:58
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