I am 28 and have suffered with emetophobia & related anxiety/mild OCD tendencies since I was about 11/12 with it being at its worse in my late teens/early twenties. Over the last 2-3 years I've been mostly doing ok, but this year it has been worse. I had a very bad patch in March when someone I knew was unwell & I couldn't go into work for a couple of days due to the anxiety & worry, it was one of the worst episodes I have had. It was the only time in my life where I've felt real depression, a bleak feeling with no desire or capability to do the simplest of things.
I got married 2 years ago and we are thinking more & more about having DC. I am at a stage where I would like to have a baby, but I'm just not sure how I would cope with both pregnancy and having a child. Are there any other emets out there who have children & could share your experiences? I think I'm really asking if your love & wanting to look after your children is a stronger feeling than the awful anxiety & gets you through?
I have never taken medication for my anxiety and phobia as deep down I am ashamed to admit I have these problems. I have tried hypnotherapy, but this didn't make any difference. The only people who know are my DH and my parents (my parents do not understand, but my DH is supportive). I'm also ashamed to admit that I do self medicate with alcohol, but not to extremes due to being terrified of getting drunk!
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PringleJess · 11/05/2014 21:02
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