Hi, would love some advice on my situation.
Basically, I have what I think is major anxiety over getting a dog.
My background is that seven years ago we got a puppy, my children at the time were 3, 8 and 10. Although I really wanted him, I found it incredibly hard and stressful, my anxiety was very high and we made the very difficult decision to rehome him. I just couldn't cope with the housetraining and having young children. Since then we have often looked after our friends dog whilst they are away, and I have really enjoyed having her here.
My children and my dh really want a dog of their own. Every time we have our friends dog we all miss her when she has gone home. I recently found a rescue dog that is perfect, the right breed, housetrained etc. We put in an application for her and they now want to do a home check.
My anxiety levels have gone sky high. I need to reply to their email but when I try to I completely freak out. My stomach churns to the point of feeling sick, I feel heat rising up the back of my neck and my mind races with questions constantly. It's like I can't stop thinking about it. The last week has been a nightmare as this is all I can think about. I think I am fine with the decision when I go to bed, then wake up thinking about it and find it difficult to get up. I can only describe it as feelings of dread and despair.
I cannot believe I feel this way over what should be a simple decision. I love the idea of having a dog, and it would get me out more, I just wish I could do it for myself and for my family. Sorry for the long post, and it seems a small problem compared to some on here, but it is really getting me down and I would love to hear your views.
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Fedupwithfeelingsad · 28/04/2013 17:21
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