Have had mild anxiety since at least birth of my 22mo, probably in pregnancy and before aswell.
Lately seems to be getting worse and I am in a horrible circle of being ill - missing shifts at work - annoying work - getting anxious about it - getting better feeling fine for a little while - getting fucking ill again.
Whole household got a ghastly vomiting bug at the weekend and I missed Friday and Saturday night at work which would be 3/4 or more of my hours. Will get like 5 hours of pay for last week . Boss is obviously not chuffed. I am really stressing now. I was ill last week, the week before, two weeks before that... Getting hard to tell if it is one continuous bug getting worse, or something wrong with my immune system as I am catching literally every bug going, or if generally being down tired and feeling crap is making me sick. Blood tests showed nothing but back to the doctors next week. puts to back of my mind I wish! Last time Doc said it was jsut cos I am a working mother no doubt trying to make me feel better, my boss is a working mother with a lot more on her plate and a pretty unhelpful DP but she isn't like this.
Anyway, today I am 95% recovered from vommy bug, disinfected the entire house Sunday, spent yesterday recuperating apart from some minor chores and a trip to the supermarket.
Today I can barely bring myself to talk to DS, let alone be companionable and motherly; cannot face the chores and am getting worried about work tonight (Sure my boss is bloody sick of me being sick too and probably looking for a polite way to tell me to get lost). Plus endlessly being skint, cold, feeling pathetic, feeling pathetic about being pathetic, guilty for putting pressure on DP who works really hard and does a lot of home stuff too, guilty as I really don't have any problems at all in comparison to lots of people so why am I incapable of just bucking up and dealing with it? I used to be able to! Argh!
Slept more this weekend than any in the last year and still feel shattered (ok sicky bug will contribute to that...) I just feel like a total waste of space Don't want to be like this!!
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Anxiety getting worse
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mmmerangue · 30/10/2012 11:14
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