Hi. i have one DD aged 3 and I've finally got to aplace where we can try for a 2nd DD. Had bad PND (IMO). From her birth I felt unable to bond with her, didn't want her, resented her..the usual. Only stopped feeling this about 18 months ago after group therapy and a parenting course. My biggest fear is being handed DC2 and thinking "what have I done?" which was my first thought with a very planned and wanted DC1. i have been tring to pin down some of the "reasons" for the PND such as a very medicalised pregnancy and a dead mother, both of which i can't change for DC2 but also thinking that there isn;t the mind numbing shock that you get with your first LO. So do you think it possible to prevent PND or at least have better coping strategies second time around? Thanks. x
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