Hello everyone
I'm hoping someone may have some advice or just to find people who feel the same as I do as I feel really alone at the moment. I have a 2.5 year old daughter who is just lovely, but for about the last 6 months or so I've been finding it a real struggle not to feel depressed when I'm at home alone with her. I know that sounds awful, because she is a lovely child and it's nothing to do with her behaving badly or anything like that (although she has her moments like all kids), but I just feel so low, like all my motivation has just gone and I feel completely braindead. I miss working and having something productive to do and using my brain, but as time passes my brain just feels so dormant, I genuinely feel less clever than I was 3 years ago, and my confidence has just plummeted. I want to throw myself into being the best mum I can for my daughter, and I love her more than life itself and tell her so all the time, but some days, like today, I feel so useless and so bored that all I can do is curl up on the sofa and cry, and even small things going wrong make me instantly angry. I wake up in the morning and wonder how the hell I'm going to fill the hours. I constantly find myself looking back at the good grades I got at school and wonder what the point was in working so hard because it's got me nowhere. I've thought about getting an evening/weekend job, but my husband is against it, and to be honest my confidence is so bad right now I just don't think any employer would want me and I'm afraid to look for a job incase I just get loads of rejections and it makes me feel even worse. I always wanted to be an illustrator, and I could be doing something about it now, but I feel so uninspired and lethargic, I can't seem to get started. My brain feels like it's literally withering away to nothing and it's really upsetting. Does anybody else ever feel like this? I can't really talk to my best friend about this as she has the opposite problem - wants to be at home with her daughter but is forced to work - and I don't think she'd understand at all. It's difficult talking to my husband either as he has been depressed since about christmas (although getting better) and I don't want to drag him down as he's making such an effort to be upbeat. Any thoughts appreciated x
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Mental health
At-home-mum finding it really hard to stay positive
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Magicpaintbrush · 18/07/2011 16:22
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