I don't contact people who 'used to be in my life'
e.g My ex step mother (but she did exit my life with a lot of drama.
- my old school friends, I had a very close circle of girl friends at school we did everything together, all facebook friends but I never attend get togethers Im invited to, not out of any hard feelings just doesn't feel relevant?
3.all ex boyfriends even though they're nice guys and amicable break ups I just cut off.
- This is the big one for me I nannied for a lovely generous and kind family over seas for 3 years (they offered to pay for me to go through uni so they could keep me for 4 more years!), I just can't bring my self to contact them even though I had sole charge of the 3 children, I adored the whole family and the job ended very amicably (my visa ran out)
- All family friends
I've always just thought I was a, 'take it as it comes kind of person', when people are there -great, when they're not also great.
But I feel a little abnormal as most people I know stay in touch with people they used to work with/ meet up e.t.c I just don't seem to feel compelled to do this, I know that I have good relataionships with others I just live more in the moment, why is this?
Anyone out there the same?
Thanks for reading