I'm worried about a good friend of mine. She has a history of antidepressants, and also a history of drugs, but about 18mos ago she seemed to have put both behind her. However, about a year ago she was consumed by depression, like a bolt from the blue, and had little choice but to go back on the tablets. She insisted there was no external reason for depression - her work was picking up, she had a great marital relationship, no-one had abused her etc etc - and she scoffed at the docs attempt to make her have counselling. Instead she insisted she'd addled her brain through too many drugs at uni and this chemical imbalance made her prone to depression, and she'd just have to take pills for good.
However, since then she's becoming more and more wild. She always drank a lot but lately it's increased, her behaviour has become reckless and she's started to do a lot of Ketamine. When I reminded her of her delicate mental state which she'd previously blamed on drugs she practically bit my head off saying 'look I know I said that but it's not down to drugs, the depression's genetic' . A couple of times I've been surprised when we've gone out for an ordinary night - not a party or club - and she admits she's on Ketamine. Surely this is very unwise if you have to take antidepressants to function?
On the reckless front she'll leave the house in the middle of the night intoxicated, pick up strange men and bring them home. She was attacked on one such occasion. A mutual friend confided in me the other day that she's equally worried and is beginning to feel uncomfortable going out with her because of her behaviour. On this particular occasion she'd done ketamine, got off with a girl and brought several strange men back to the house, despite her husband being there (he's too mild and hippyish to say anything). None of her friends behave like this, but we do know people who do and she used to scorn them!
I'm no expert on depression but I was always pretty sceptical of her diagnosis, and her increasing irresponsibilty makes me think there ARE external reasons for her depressive state. She's in her 30s, not keen on the idea of kids, works freelance, seemingly happily married. Does it ring any bells with anyone? I'm looking for advice because I know she will argue down my attempts to counsel her!
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Worried my friend is going off the rails - advice needed on depression and drugs!
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Indiestarr · 21/06/2011 00:02
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