Sorry this is long. Need to let of steam and also ask advice.
I am deeply ashamed of myself. I absolutely lost it and growled like a dog at my musical DS today because I was trying to work out a (for me) tricky bit of his Grade 2 piano piece because he and I disagreed over the timing of it. While I was playing it very very slowly to get the counting right, he went over to the electric organ on the other side of the room and bashed out some clashing chords. After a far too long and loud meltdown lecture from me about disrespect and 'I'm only doing this to help you' etc, we made up.
His teacher has suggested he goes up to two lessons a week to prepare for Grade 2 as he's made very slow progress this term. The real reason is that I started a new job working long hours away from home while traiing and haven't been around. His teacher leaves a lot of the working out how to play a piece to homework, and goes over corrections in the lesson, rather than teaching new bars. That means, effectively, I'm the one who has to teach him the pieces. But I'm not musical. I don't even have grade 1 piano.
So..what I'm wondering is: instead of him having 2 lessons a week with his sweet but rather ineffectual teacher, should I get a lesson a week, so I'm up to speed with him and can help him learn more easily. I really enjoy working with him on his pieces and learning how to read music as we go along, but it's all self taught.
Any advice?
And please, please feel free to share your own musical meltdowns with me to make me feel better! :)
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racingheart · 04/07/2012 09:16
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