First of all, sorry if this is a bit long and confused, but I am a bit upset.
I feel sad for dd (5 years and 5 months) as she has finally realised that she is not good at sport (by the way, sport is no big deal in our house, so there's no pressure from us in that area). She said the other day 'I'm slow at running but I'm intelligent!', which made me smile and at the same time made me sad as she is now aware of her weakness. She walked at 22 months, and as a result her jumping and running are not great, even though she keeps making progress. She said tonight that she is glad that 'A' (a boy from her class) is away because he always tells her that she is slow at running and she always comes last in races. This has made me feel so sad for her, because she is a happy, enthusiastic little girl who always tries her best (teacher's words, not mine!), and she shouldn't be put down like this. I know kids do that and she has to learn to defend herself but she is still so young, she shouldn't have to hear this, it's taken her so long to master confidence in physical things. So I find myself boosting her confidence by reminding her that she is an excellent reader (Year 1 ORT level 10), in the top group in maths, won her drama competition last year, etc....... I don't want to have to do that because I don't want to raise her as a boastful child.
What do I do??????
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Dd put down by schoolmates for running slowly......feeling sad
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FrenchNicholasGirl · 09/12/2004 20:30
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