Sorry I am not sure if I am posting this in the right thread...
But I have been looking for existing threads regarding 'Repeating Reception year' and I just need to get advice from parents who have been through this, and if they had a positive experience by repeating reception or not.
My son was born 3 months premature and he was a twin, he weighed a little less than 2lb, despite all the difficulties in first few weeks of his life, he has done brilliantly and I am very proud of him.
We noticed his odd behaviour around 18 months+ and were worried about ASD/ Autism, we did two assessments, one was positive and one was negative, it wasn't a clear cut.
He started reception in our local state school, with EHCP in place, and I felt the school wasn't doing a good job and he was overwhelmed with 30 children in a classroom, so put him in private school (small setting) but spent a while going to different private schools, as not many support children with additional needs, we found this school and the Senco was very very good, and said they have had other children with similar needs to our son, and she was very supportive.
He has almost full time 1-1 TA, the only issue is, he moved to the new school in February, so almost halfway in the academic year, the new school were academically further ahead than his previous school, so he missed out a bit, and they're helping him to catch up.
He is under OT, SLT at the moment and the school is doing a good job, we also had ABA for 2 years before he started school.
He is a bright little boy, he's petite in 3/4 yr old clothing, but he's super hyper, not so much at school but at home. He shows traits of ASD, visual stimming etc.., and gets distracted easily. He knows more than he can say as his speech is around 3/4 year old level, but I think he knows more, but because he can't say what they ask of him sometime, he comes across as though he doesn't know it.
The school is scoring him low in social, communication, self care etc.. around 22-36 month level, some skills around 30-50 and some around 40-60. They said he would benefit from repeating reception, but he is a September born, so he's already one of the oldest in his class, if he was to repeat reception he'd be almost 2 years older than some of the children! How would he feel when he's older knowing his is a lot older than his peers, self confidence? bullying? I am so torn and don't know what decision to make. He's made new friends in his year, and he's very popular, even children in year 1 and 2 play with him. But I think they like mothering him.
I asked the Senco to get an Ed Psychologist on board to know what their view is, and also other professionals. But I wanted to know if anyone had gone through this, and what decision they made, and if they're happy with their decision.
Sorry this is a long post, and apologies if similar post has already been added, but any advice is much appreciated.
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B262 · 25/05/2018 13:44
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