Scottish System.
Well DS1 got his results this morning and passed 2 out of 4 exams. His commitment to school has been non-existant as he has more concentration for his guitar playing than anything else (has dreams of being a rock star).
His course work was below standard so he was not allowed to sit his higher chemistry. He had got a D for higher physics and computing. He has passed his Maths (Intermediate 2) but got a B, so he is not allowed to sit the higher course this year. Looks as though he has passed higher English but he needs confirmation of passing a unit that he sat post higher exam date.
So all-in-all, a very poor result. He is staying on for 6th year but is devastated today. I have tried not to say 'I told you so' but I did let that slip out. He is adamant that he does not ant to resit any subjects because he hated most of them. For 6th year he has selected subjects that interest him. He hasn't a clue what he wants to do in the future. I haven't a clue how to support him really. He is not daft - he was capable of doing these subjects but he just wouldn't put in the work.
I think he is really shocked and hopefully it will give him a kick up the a**e. He has had a difficult year with his best friend being treated for cancer. I am not sure if that has any bearing on it because his marks were on the decline before his friend became ill.
I am trying to be posistive and said that it is not the end of the world and that he will probably do better this year doing the subjects that he likes. He will get an appointment next week with the depute head to discuss his options. Feel so bad for him now. Feel bad about being a parent too. Should we have got him a tutor? Don't think so because his heart was not in it. School said not to waste the money!!!!
What to do..........
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mears · 10/08/2004 17:13
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JanZ ·
11/08/2004 09:08
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