Hello all.
I'm after some general advice on behalf of my DH, please. His ex has a long history of not involving him in decisions about their children-where they first moved away to after the split, nursery & school applications, whether or not to have flu jabs, GP registrations, etc etc.
She has made mostly uncontroversial decisions so far (though the initial move to the middle of nowhere wasn't ideal!), but he is concerned that if something more serious came up, she would continue in this vein of unilateral decision making. When he eventually finds out that these decisions have been made (usually from the children), he always follows up with the relevant authority to ensure he has all the information, but of course by then whatever decision it is has already been made. In particular, he is concerned that she will go ahead and decide on a high school without telling him.
Sooo long story short, does anyone have any knowledge about or experience in protecting his right to be consulted? He knows he can go for court orders on specific matters, but he would rather get ahead of these things if he can. Can anyone recommend something that might help him generally, to force encourage her to consult him? Thanks.
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unclemontyscrumpets · 24/04/2019 21:02
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