Cutting a long story short my husband wants to separate. I am moving back to my home town with our 2 kids and he says it's for the best cause he's not in love with me anymore.
So I did the usual cried and fired moved out for a while and came back and now it's been 6 months and I'm finally slowly accepting all of this a little bit at a time day by day. He is acting everyday like nothing is wrong, still hugging me still giving me kisses in the forehead, still tickling me and being playful & all of it is making me cringe. I said to him a few days ago maybe this is for the best & I am starting to feel myself detaching from you slowly & he went mad starting saying 'aww good for u then it'll be easier for you to get over your broken heart when your gone' & I said I hope so. He wouldn't speak to me for a while so I got up and went out and left him with the kids. Then last night he asked where all our wedding pictures where? I had taken them all off the wall when we had an argument one night a few weeks back and put them in plastic bags and put them in our sunroom! He couldn't have cared less! I had put them there with the intention of throwing them out but didn't have the heart to until yday. So my husband last night asked where they were and I said I finally had the strength to get rid of them and he went mad 'aww so that's the way you want to be then fine!!!' & he didn't speak to me the rest of the night, went to bed & got up this morning and he's ignoring me. I said to him sure your getting everything you asked for and your still annoyed and that's it I am not talking to him I'm not getting roped into this.
Anyway I wanted to ask is he emotionally manipulating me? He also wants me to 'leave the door open for us in the future' which I think is a joke!!! And I said I don't think I can do that and he said 'aww well I hope you don't regret your decision?' I said no you made the decision to end our marriage and I hope you don't regret it!!
Anyone else's husbands doing this??
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Husband wants separation which broke my heart but now that I am showing strength he's getting annoyed!!!
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whatnowat35 · 04/10/2017 08:25
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