ok guys, dh and i have three children, two boys 6 and 4 and dd who is two. I have just found out i am pregnant, massive shock.
kids will be 7,5,3 when baby born
dh is not sure he wants the baby. his reasons are that it will affect family life too much and our relationship, i.e. sex.
he also said that it would be too much for my body. i said i would get a mothers help to come in a couple of times on a morning and at tea time.
i also said i would make sure we had a sitter once a fortnight to go out. he goes on as though we never go out, ok not every week but at least once a month.
and as for the sex, yes we are not rampant, at it all the time but who the fuck is with three kids.
also add that dh works alot and away and i have brought the three children up practically single handed. the day after i came out of hospital with dd he had to go away on business for three weeks. i got up the next day and still did the nursery run and got on with it.
please share your thoughts as a man
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cba · 18/09/2007 09:50
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