OK, so am donning my asbestos suit for the flaming... but would appreciate some serious thoughts.
I'm a single 40-odd bloke with a young DC, and I'm finding myself attracted to someone at work. She's mid twenties, but mature for her age and v interesting person. We share quite a lot in common and I'm starting to suspect she has a bit of a thing for me. So, lots of soul-searching...
Obviously, this isn't anywhere near an actual relationship yet. I haven't even asked her out and maybe she just likes the attention - but I'm not going to blindly jump into something that may end up going somewhere. I'm not interested in a fling or a "this could be fun, lets see what happens" relationship. I want a proper relationship and, well, I'm not going to get into a serious relationship with a woman who may want a family one day if I'm not wanting this myself.
While I'm not actively looking to start a new family from scratch, I'm pretty sure if I was with the right woman then that's what I'd want. Only there's the guilt. Not only for my former DP, having to see me start a family with a much younger woman, but for my DC who may feel excluded and betrayed. After all, I'd only be spending half my time with DC and all my time with a new family. So, has anyone any experience of this where it's worked out? Or does it sound like a recipe for disaster?
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WhatwouldyoudoWHATWOULDYOUDO · 26/07/2015 23:18
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