Our financial situation is getting worse and worse. dh is self employed but has had no proper work since before Christmas. He has been doing the same work for ten years and we have always done okay from it. I work part-time on a low wage and we do get what we are entitled to in tax credits. We have a debt management plan in place due to debts run up when dh was ill and couldn't work which we have only been able to make a token payment on for the last two months and now all creditors are calling us. We just don't have enough coming in for what's going out. I have cut back all luxuries, sold anything I could and my jewellery, including wedding ring has been pawned. We just about managed to buy food this week. I have tried so hard to be positive for the sake of our two children but I just feel like giving up now. I really thought things would pick up now we are so far into the new year but they haven't. Both myself and dh have tried to find more work but there is nothing out there at all. The only assett we have is our home which we have about £50k equity in so really don't want to go bankrupt as we would lose that as well and that is our security for the children. We are managing to meet our mortgage payments but to the detrement of other bills/debts. I really don't know why I am posting as no-one can help but I feel I'm sinking and can't talk to dh about it as he gets angry because he feels he's useless for not supporting us
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