Hi there,
I've been TTC for a long time (about four years) with no success, despite a pretty regular cycle and nothing wrong (had all the tests, as has DH). I was just wondering about how much alcohol might be affecting our chances - obviously it's likely drinking doesn't help, and all the medical advice says as much, but the fertility specialists don't think this is really the issue, or didn't say so, and all my friends conceived while drinking as much as I do or more, and say 'don't give up until you have to'. I don't drink masses and masses, but I often have 10-14 units a week, though have been trying to make it much less recently.
My DH drinks quite heavily though - it's rare he has a night off, and he'll probably have 7-8 units (in one night) a few times a week. He is co-operating with the whole TTC thing, but isn't that keen on kids, and while not being an alcoholic exactly, is very habituated to drinking and it's a big part of his life. I know this sounds like something of an issue but I can't change him in this respect (he is not amenable to being changed!) and he's wonderful in every other way, so I have come to accept that he drinks a bit (and sometimes a lot) more than I would like, both for the sake of his health and in terms of conceiving.
I know you aren't medics (well, some of you probably are, actually!) but if anyone has any advice or a feel for whether my stopping drinking completely is very likely to help us conceive, and whether his drinking is likely to be a or the major problem, I'd love to know. We're thinking about IVF, but it would be very stupid to go through that if a simple lifestyle change could sort us out. It's certainly not just DH - I would struggle to give up alcohol completely, I have to say, as it's embedded in my life and habits quite signficantly, and I love it, but I could do it and am thinking perhaps I should.
Any thoughts/experiences? (Thanks in advance!!)
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LeviStubbsTears · 24/08/2009 19:45
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