Hello all, new here and really worrying about asking this.
I am nearly 30. No history of sexual abuse or assault. Identified as gay for a long time although am now in a long term relationship with a wonderful man and I really love him. But I have never had penetrative sex. Never used tampons. The only Cervical smear I had took three appointments and the GP finally had to do it instead of nurse. I've never wanted penetration-- it just doesn't make sense to me. When I first learned about it at school I was just confused by it and that has never changed! It just seems to be a completely absent part of my sexuality. DP and I have active but penetrative sex life.
The thing is, we'd absolutely love to have children. I have no idea what support or help is out there. I feel like the only person in the world with this problem. I read about people trying to conceive for months or years and it fills me with dread how many times they'd have to DTD in that time.
Does anyone have any advice?
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Never had PIV sex, not sure if I can, want baby
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TheAnswerIsInABookSomewhere · 11/04/2019 11:48
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