Hello ladies.
Okay so this post is long coming, i have put off from posting for the last few months because I have been scared and honestly not wanting to admit to myself but it is very apparent my son is not developing like a normal toddler should and it breaks my heart.
Firstly he is the most cute, charming little boy ever and i would not change him for the world, however hes behaviour is very challenging more so now than ever! he just turned 2 last month and honestly i have thought in my heart something is up with him since he was around 1 year old but just never wanted to admit it.
these are the things he does/ doesnt do.
- he walks on his toes, not constantly tho
- flaps hes hands
- jumps all day long
4)humms pretty much from the minute he wakes up to the minute he goes to bed
5)has not spoke a single word- not even mummy or daddy
6)responds to name only when you call him several times
7)can throw violent tantrums
8)has this strange thing of licking everything, his toys, the wall basically anything, even people at times.
9)spins everything with wheels and wont play with them how he should
10)does not point at all/ never has
on the other hand, hes eye contact is very good, he loves to hug, he smiles and laughs a lot, he does follow basic instructions like come here, stop that, give me that. he can feed himself, uses a spoon as he should, drinks from a cup and not really fussy with food, he can eat anything, hes sleep is pretty decent.
i guess am just after some reassurance that everything will be okay as i have kind of already diagnosed him. i know i shouldn't but someone tell me how my son can do all of these things and nothing to be wrong with him, i guess i have already accepted that there is definitely something going on. he was referred to speech when he was 18 months, he went but nothing, he has now been referred for development checks where they will check if he is autistic or has any other condition, he starts nursery January and am very nervous and dont know how he will cope.
i also have a 5 month old and am in my most challenging times as my son can be a handful and dealing with an infant its a lot, i find my self shouting and screaming at times, i really need to find ways to cope because i am on a verge of loosing it.