Hi. You might remember me from this thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a1545596-To-want-dd-to-have-an-operation-for-vanity-reasons
Well, dd's op is at the end of next week. Finally, after years of watching her cough up these tonsil stones and suffering from ear infections, it will be all over.
But the thought of her going to sleep and actually being operated on is keeping me up at night.
I've spoken to the nurse and doctor who will be dealing with her, but they keep saying risks are very minimal.
Stupidly, i then turned to Google. And i found this site: ent.about.com/b/2009/06/01/five-year-old-dies-after-tonsillectomy.htm
I've found a few online articles re deaths after tonsillectomies too.
And now i just want to cancel the whole thing. But i know dd will have a miserable life with those blasted things in her throat, but a miserable life is better than no life.
Her procedure will be at noon, and we'll be staying overnight. But what happens when she gets home? What happens if she starts bleeding?
What happens if she's allergic to the anasthetic, and doesn't even wake up?
I'm in a total mess about this. Some success stories and experiences would be greatly appreciated.
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My dd's due to get her tonsils and adenoids out next week, and i'm convinced something awful will happen to her :(
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MsBrown · 08/04/2013 15:01
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