prior to the birth of dd, my partner made it clear that he had great reservations in being present for her birth.
we agreed that we would play it by ear and both acknowledged that being private people, i may also feel uncomfortable with his presence during such a vulnerable time.
he came into the delivery suite prior to things getting messy, went out for a smoke and returned approx. half hour later.
at this point it became evident that his presence was having an adverse effect on my freedom to birth and i asked him to leave.
both of us felt that my solitary experience was totally right.
we have subsequently wondered how much social pressure is put on partners to attend births and whether this has had detrimental effects for either of the couple?
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does anyone choose to give birth without their partner present, anymore?
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nightshade · 21/07/2007 15:38
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