I posted a thread on secondary school but see I was in the wrong place and hoping for some more helpful tips.
My DC started secondary school with a few of his peers from a small village school. The new school is huge and the DC were put into classes with some of their old peers. My DC hit the ground running and expanded his friendships and loves the new independence etc. He is doing really well. One of his previous school friends is not having a great time with the transition to secondary and is taking it out on my DS. He has been going home to his parents and saying my DS has made comments or given him a look and the parents have made a number of complaints about my DS. In the school's words "they made so many complaints they had to do something about it". They moved my DC away from the DC and have had a few meetings with him where they have disciplined him.
Apparently, my DC has made 3 comments to him over the course of a year when they are in the same class, working together. The comments are things like "get a grip", "for god's sake" and things like that. The most recent discipline was when my DS apparently laughed at him. I ask you if your tween DS was sitting next to someone for a year and travelling to and from school on the bus with him for 30 mins, and made 3 comments like this and gave 1 laugh at something stupid he did, do you really think this is a bullying issue? Just to repeat, it is 4 things in total over 1 year. The parent has even confirmed that it is 4 things over this time. I am not minimising.
So, from what I understand from the FT, they do not think my DC is a bully and they are quite at a loss to explain it. The other parent seems to have it in for my DS and is constantly emailing the school about him. I actually think this is a deflection from the real problem, which is that their own DC needs help and he has received poor parenting, which is what we all witnessed in our previous school.
I now think this parent needs to be told to stop, or I need to do something about this as a parent myself as I think my DC is being bullied.
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ShapeShiftedForThis · 03/03/2021 15:06
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