I need some clarification, explanation and advice over the following situation.
My DC is one of many who are on the receiving end of some terrible behaviour at our school by one child. I would say it is on the top end of the scale of bad behaviour with physical violence and verbal abuse. There are lots of children who are targeted, not just one although some DC receive more than others. The DC in question has no SEN we are aware of.
This behaviour is becoming increasingly worse and I am very concerned about it as are others whose DC have been targeted and injured. When my DC has been the target I have addressed it with the school. Despite some minor punishments I hear about via my DC there doesn't seem to be a lot being done about.
My school has a very clear bullying and safeguarding policy. However IMO I do not think they are following it. During a meeting I think I used the word bullying once and it was as if I had said something really terrible about a child. The teacher got very upset and defensive and said "this is not bullying". Why would this not be bullying? That says to me that if it is not bullying then they don't have to follow their own policy. What else would you call constant physical aggression? I am now very conscious of using this word when pulling them up on this DC's behaviour despite how bad it is.
I need to go back to my school following another incident with my DC. I know that once again I am going to be told that they need to safeguard the other DC and that it is not bullying. This is a wheel that keeps turning and I feel I need to be better informed to get this stopped.
I welcome any comments about this.
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Stressedaboutthis · 07/02/2018 08:34
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