so does anyone else feel their blood boil at the use of this phrase?? Also similar terms such as the breastfeeding mafia, breastfeeding nazi's.. Etc etc.
As far as I am aware, I sit in a room twice a week, try to keep my kids entertained, on the off chance that someone will walk through the door needing help. If they come I will do my best to help them, sometimes I don't think I said the right thing/didn't know enough, that is why when I get my three kids (5 and under to bed) I spend a few hours studying breastfeeding issues ( not every night! There is wine :o) Plus, spending hours and hours on admin for the local breastfeeding support group.
I give so many hours of unpaid labour, supporting the nhs, who quite frankly should be training midwives and health visitors better.
But at the end of the day if you manage to help one woman, give them the support needed to succeed, then it's worth it :)
That is why I get SO offended when we are called derogatory names, and especially likening us to the Gestapo the mafia! I am 100% certain that I have never masterminded mass genocide or taken innocent people's lives, nor have I ever even pushed my very strong views on anyone.
The way I see it is that if someone comes to a breastfeeding group they are coming for support with breastfeeding which we will give them, whole heartedly. Please do not judge us for being 'anti-formula' we are never going to say it's the best thing for your baby, because biologically it isn't! However if that is what you decide, we will respect that it is completely your choice, as a mother to make.
YES we really do believe 'breast is best' in fact we believe it is normal it is the benchmark to measure everything else upon, BUT please don't judge us for having strong views on the subject, if we didn't then we wouldn't be giving up our free time, putting our husbands/partners in a bad mood, doing lots of hours for no pay... On the off chance that when someone really needs us, we'll be there, with correct (up to date) information and a lot of support!
Ok, rant over :)
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twinklegreen · 05/07/2011 22:27
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