Having avoided HVs since DS2 was born, I finally gave in and took him for his 3 month check today. And, yup, he's slipped way down the charts, from the 50th at birth to below the 0.4th today (12 weeks + 2 days). Have posted about feeding frustrations here (in a nutshell, he feeds lots, doesn't feel like we've left newborn feeding pattern behind)
HV was very nice and non-alarmist, but referred me to GP, who I saw this afternoon. GP was reasonably concerned, especially as DS2 is pretty long and his head measures on the 75th percentile.
GP's initial suggestion was to express every feed and give it by bottle. At my face he agreed that perhaps I could try expressing and topping up.
I'm feeling so bloody down about this, as I was so relieved that our BFing relationship was going well - had a hell of a time with DS1 )colic, undiagnosed tongue tie, slipping down the centiles etc etc), and now my confidence is completely shot.
I just don't know what more I can do. DS2 is already feeding at least every 90 minutes round the clock (more like hourly or more during the day, very occasional 3 hour gap at night, but only about one night in 5), I am just about keeping on top of everything with very busy DS1 (2.9) to look after as well, and I just don't have the time or resources available to sit and pump for hours every day.
DS2 doesn't nap terribly well, so he has kind of got into the habit of feeding to sleep and dozing on and off in my arms, but I didn't think it was so 'bad' that he wasn't taking proper feeds, iykwim.
DP has already started mentioning formula more and more frequently, and I know he would quit happily give it as DS1 had a bottle a day from 10 weeks and 'he's fine' (DP's words). I am prepared to give formula if I really have to, but I would prefer to solve this with a BFing solution if I possibly can - seems a shame to ruin a good thing.
However, I just don't know what to do to solve it without formula! I feel like all my attempts to be more baby led this time (was a bit more routiney with DS1) have completely failed and I may as well not have bothered.
Help! Wisdom appreciated!
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So bloody sick of it - despite feeding constantly, DS is not really gaining
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Hopefully · 23/06/2011 18:28
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