my daughters nan died at the weekend at the age of 86 after 49 happy years of marriage, my daughter who is 9 has taken it well considering and wishes to see nan and put a couple of special things in the coffin she also did this when my dad died 2 years ago. but her grandad has said the registrar or somebody has said she cant do this as she is too young and would be upset, grandad is going along with this but he is very raw obviously at present, my daughter really wants to see nan before her final journey she is going to the funeral but feels the need to say goodbye properly do i take her anyway to see nan in the chapel or go against her and take that away from her i feel its part of grieving and closure and i want to repect her wishes and dont want to upset her grandad anymore than he is now
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