my mum's DP died nearly a year ago just before DD1 was 3. She loved her "Uncle" X and didn't really understand.
I thought about how to tell her very hard. I had to tell her something as she asked about him, and she was there when we were all at my house when we heard the news.
I decided to tell her that he fell down the stairs (she heard this at the time or I would not have been so specific) and hurt himself and that the doctors couldn't fix him. I said he had gone now and we wouldn't see him again. She asks every now and again if he is going to get better, and can she take him some medicine [bless]
I just repeat what I originally said, she asks for details sometimes, and seems to think that anyone who died fell down the stairs, she also plays dead games.
How have you dealt with this issue and when did they sort of understand it??
I think she is starting to understand as she just said "I'm never going to see him again amI??" and she said she wanted to see him and she missed him.
Did I say the right things???
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How do you explain Death to a child and at what age do they "get it"?????
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BandofMutantMonsters · 13/10/2007 09:00
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