Okay, I can somewhat understand the concept of breast/bottle feeding an infant on demand. But, I've just realised that my nanny feeds my toddler on demand. I am totally opposed to this philosophy. I think a meal is offered and if she doesn't want it, then okay, but you don't let her have toast when she demands it an hour later.
This thread is a small piece of a much bigger pie. But, I'm really interested to know if parents (or carers) of toddlers let them eat on demand or if you offer them food at mealtime, and then make them go until the next scheduled mealtime before they get any more food.
When I say eat on demand, she gets what she wants when she wants it, but junk food (like cookies and ice cream) are generally off limits.
The problem is if I set past in front of her on the weekend she says "No. Toast!" Nanny goes off to make her toast. I on the other hand believe very strongly that a toddler needs to learn discipline, and she needs to learn that I am not her short order cook.
Incidentally, we have huge problems feeding her on the weekend. And I have only just now realised it's probably because she is expecting me to bring what she demands, and not what I have already prepared.
Okay, okay, you can all see how I feel about it so I have probably biased your responses. But I really would like your opinions before I give nanny a swift kick in the arse, which she is going to get anyway. But, it's so easy to overreact when you are mad about other things.
I'm rambling now... over to the expertise of mumsnet....
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Toddler eating on demand? Is this acceptable or lack of discipline?
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uwila · 15/03/2005 17:54
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