I would like to get a book that might help guide me through the toddler years.
I had What To Expect When Expecting/The First Year and found these so much help. However, I also got the What To Expect: The Toddler Years and I really did not find it useful at all. I found it quite moralising, rather than full of practical tips on how to deal with certain behaviour.
Since then, I have not looked at a toddler book. And whilst DH and I are not struggling with all aspects, there are some areas were we are a little unclear as to which direction we should be/want to be going in terms of discipline, and think it might be good to look at some 'Bibles' to get a feel of if we are doing it right, what we might be doing wrong, give us some confidence, in particular how to deal with mornings and evenings (DD has become a door basher since moving into her bed, early in the morning and late at night, and it is wearing us down, for example).
We do not want a regimented toddler book. We are not military precision parents, we do not have strict routines, and whilst that may be some our problem, we want to find a way of disciplining without being too aggressive/strict/regimented.
DD is quite an independent child, and what we do not want to do is force this to be pushed into the background. We want to encourage and develop her sense of self without putting too many barriers in her way. Which means we need to know much better what boundaries are essential (we think we know, but need confirmation/reassurance, how to keep those boundaries in place and be consistent with it.
I gave a lot of info, as I think this might be useful in the recommendations that people may give. It may be that there are a couple we could look at.
Thanks in advance.
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Recommended Toddler Behaviour Books please.
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PavlovtheCat · 19/09/2008 09:29
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